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🖤 If You're Thinking About Ending Your Life Please Read This First

To our community of survivors
We get it.

Not “we understand in theory.” We get it  because many of us have stood exactly where you're standing right now.
Some of us tried. Some of us came close. Some of us didn’t think we'd ever survive the fallout of narcissistic abuse the smear campaigns, the gaslighting, the abandonment, the silence, the total collapse of everything.

This kind of abuse isn't just emotional. It's psychological terrorism. It rips through your identity, isolates you from support, and convinces you that you're the problem. That you're crazy. That you're broken. That you're better off gone.

That is a lie. And it's not yours  it’s theirs.

You are not weak. You are not too damaged to come back. You are not alone.

🛑 If you're in immediate danger:

📞 In the U.S.: Dial 988
📞 Canada: 1-833-456-4566
📞 UK: 116 123 (Samaritans)
📞 Australia: 13 11 14 (Lifeline)
🌐 Or click here for help in 200+ countries

These lines are staffed by people who won’t shame you, won’t dismiss you, and won’t tell you to “just get over it.” Many have lived it. All are trained to listen.

💬 Here’s What You Need to Know Right Now:

You are not crazy. You are in crisis. There’s a difference.

You are not alone. There’s a global community of survivors who see you and believe you.

This pain is not forever. It can feel permanent  but it’s not. This moment will pass.

You don’t have to heal alone. We’re out here. You just haven’t found us all yet.

💡 What You Can Do Right Now:

Call or text a crisis line

Write down how you’re feeling  even if it's dark

Tell one person you trust

Read survivor stories you’ll see you're not the only one who felt this way

Say this out loud:

“This isn’t the end of my story. I am not what they made me feel.”

🖤 Final Words  From One Survivor to Another:

You are not disposable. You are not unlovable. You are not beyond repair.
You were targeted, broken down, and made to feel invisible  but you’re still here.
That is power.

Stay.
Please.
Keep Fighting Keep Living for there is love and joy yet to be found.

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SUICIDE CRISIS MESSAGE

A message from Daniel Ryan Cotler

If you’re here right now… and you’re thinking about ending your life…
I want you to pause. Just for a moment.
Stay with me.

I know you're hurting.
And I know that the pain you're in feels impossible.
Like you're shattered into a million pieces, and no one can hear you.

Maybe you feel discarded.
Maybe you feel like nothing you do matters.
Like the person you loved has moved on and erased you…
And you're the one left behind, drowning in the silence.

Please listen to me.

This is not your fault.
You are not worthless.
You are not broken beyond repair.

You are hurting because someone chose to hurt you.
Someone used love as a weapon.
They made you feel seen, then made you feel invisible.
They made you feel safe, then made you feel crazy.
They told you that you were special, then treated you like trash.

And now you're left trying to survive what they did.
That pain you’re in? That grief?
It’s not weakness.
It’s the wound left behind when someone you trusted wasn’t who they claimed to be.

And I know exactly what that feels like.
Because I’ve been there.

I survived nine suicide attempts.
And I wasn’t trying to die because I hated myself
I was trying to stop the pain.
I couldn’t accept that the person I loved most never even existed.
The heartbreak of that truth broke me.
It felt like it hollowed me out from the inside.

But I came back.
And I’m telling you right now you can too.

You're not alone.
And you are not the monster they made you out to be.
You're not too much.
You're not too sensitive.
You're not weak.
You were targeted.
You were manipulated.
You were dehumanized.

And now…
you’re here.
Which means some part of you still wants to live.
Still wants to believe that maybe just maybe you matter.

Let me be the one to tell you: You do.
You matter.
Not because of what you can do for others.
Not because someone approves of you.
You matter because you exist.
Because you are a human being with a heart that still beats.

And I know it feels impossible right now…
But this feeling won’t last forever.
You can get through this.

Right now, I want you to do one thing:
Call or text 988.
Or text the word HOME to 741741.
That’s it. Just reach out. Even with one word.

You don’t need to explain everything.
You don’t have to be okay.
You just have to stay.

And when you’re safe…
When this moment passes…
Come back here.
Come back to us.

This movement was built for people like you.
People who were told they didn’t matter
but refused to stay silent.

You don’t have to heal quietly.
You don’t have to hide anymore.
There is life after this.
And you deserve to live it.

So stay.
Speak.
Heal Loudly.

We’re waiting for you.

- Daniel Ryan Cotler 


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